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Old 12 Sep 2008, 09:29 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default It still hasn't quite hit me.

My grandfather passed on this morning.....about 3 am.
He had been hospitalized for the last month or so.

He had been living in Texas, and now due to the hurricane crap....we can't get him transported back home for about a week.

I think due to the distance, the reality of the situation hasn't quite hit me....which is pretty surprising to me, I was pretty close to my grandfather.

I have been a bit on edge, and actually snapped my cell phone into many different pieces today.

Its been a rough few weeks.

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Is it weird that I haven't quite "reacted" to the situation?
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Old 12 Sep 2008, 09:42 PM   #2 (permalink)
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So sorry to hear about the situation Chris...

Personally I don't think it is weird that it haven't hit you yet...because when my grandfather passed away I didn't feel anything until I physically touched his body and feel that he didn't react to me the way he normally does...this was about 10 years ago...
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Old 12 Sep 2008, 09:47 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Sorry to hear about your loss man

I don't think it's weird at all that it hasn't hit you yet,it takes time for some people in situations like that.When my grandma passed earlier this year it hit me right away because she had been so sick before it happened and then when it happened it hit me like a ton of bricks.

Once again sorry about your loss.
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Old 12 Sep 2008, 10:02 PM   #4 (permalink)
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It's not weird, people go through different emotions when things like this happen to them. When my grandfather passed away, I had to be strong for my grandmother, I drove her home from the hospital that day. I felt I had a duty to her, to be strong in her time of need. Once I got home by myself I just broke down. People react differently, sometimes it happens right then, sometimes it takes a little while. Just try and be strong, and if you got ot let your emotions out do so, just know this is part of life.

Sorry for your loss Chris, I was really hoping that weeks ago when you told me your situation that your grandfather would pull through. My prayers go out to you and your family. PWF is here for you.
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Old 12 Sep 2008, 10:41 PM   #5 (permalink)
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As I said last night, I'm sorry for your loss. You know you're in my thoughts and you have my sympathies. If you want or need to talk, I'm here for you.
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Sorry to hear about you loss C.K. My last great grand parent my great grandma and my fiance's great grandma all died within the same 6 months, it'snever easy too lose a loved one especially if it's not there time yet.
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Is it weird that I haven't quite "reacted" to the situation?
Not at all. Often this shit will hit you when you least expect it.

Sometime down the road, it will come. You're numb right now.

I react the same way.
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Old 13 Sep 2008, 01:29 AM   #8 (permalink)
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Sorry about your loss, Cappy. You're in my thoughts and prayers, however worthless mine might be.

Don't worry about the 'react.' People deal with grief in their own way, and as long as it comes out eventually, you'll be straight. Worrying about it will only make it worse, man.

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Grief effects everyone differently, and I think maybe you are reacting, but you're not recognizing it? Does that make sense?

I'm sorry for your loss.
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The loss of a loved one doesn't effect everyone the same. I was almost hysterical when my dad died. Right now, just go with the flow and you will feel the gut kick as I call it hit you soon. I'm sorry about your loss and will be there as your friend, man.
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Sorry to hear about the loss man.

I'd say it's not weird that you haven't responded to it yet. It takes time for it to really sink in.
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Old 14 Sep 2008, 08:28 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Really sorry for your loss man, really am. I know it's so tough, and people deal with it in many different ways. Don't feel weird, and stay strong man.
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I will send good thoughts your way.
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Didn't know how to respond to this thread. Not much I can say since I haven't lost a close family member myself. Besides that, I'm late. Nevertheless, as someone who has posted with you on this site for years now, you have my condolences.
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Sorry for your loss, I know how hard it is to lose a grandparent, I lost my grandma in 2001 and I will probably never get over it, although to this day I never cried, she practically raised me. My grandfather is still around but I don't know what I would do if I lost him too, my thoughts to you and your family.

No, whatever way you react is natural, as long as its not negative to you or others.
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