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Old 02 Mar 2004, 04:54 PM   #1 (permalink)
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ya so... there's this girl see, and I kinda like her. Known her for about a month, she's probably been nicer to me than any other girl I know (which is like one lmfao) anywho... last saturday she broke up with her b/f and is (understandably) depressed so I do my best to cheer her up and she thanks me. Now I'm assuming that "oh, he must have dumped her the cruel bastard" but in actuality she dumped him because she though that he didn't want to be together and then appearently he dumped her if that makes any sense whatsoever. Just a few days ago she sends me a note asking me if I like as "more than a friend" (why do people always use that term?) now I'm honestly not sure what to say, I thought of her as a pretty good friend but I still wasn't sure how to answer the question. I could either A) tell her I don't like her as anything more than a friend and possibly hurt her feelings or B) tell her that yes, I like her as more than a friend and possibly get rejected or called a weirdo. Now I already knew that she was going to try and get back to together with her ex so I told her what I thought she needed to hear which was "I honestly don't know how I feel, I'm sorry I can't give you a straight answer. However I think that how I feel is irrelevant because I don't want to come between you and your b/f if it ever came down to a yes or no answer" she responds with "it's okay" and a pretty much standard reaction and then she tells me that she's going on a date with her b/f today or tommorrow (I don't remember when) so no problem right? Now all of the sudden I feel somewhat hurt, like this hadn't gone the way I expected it to. I felt a jealousy no, an envy develop inside of me. I couldn't realize why I felt this way, I mean she's happy and I managed to keep my cool yet now I feel this sense of maybe I do want to be more than friends. Problem is I'm nowhere in the league of her b/f I mean let's look at the stats here, her b/f: normal funny cool skater kid, Me: weird fat retarded sonuvabitch. I know I could never get the same chemistry as them so I wouldn't even consider ever trying to win her over but now suddenly I feel this sense of urgency inside of my to do something.

So what it boils down to is: am I selfish for wanting to break up a good relationship just so I can get this girl to be with a loser like me?
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Old 02 Mar 2004, 05:38 PM   #2 (permalink)
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well. lets see. i wouldnt say youre selfish. you just got your hopes up that she would like to be with you. you would like to be with her, but you want her to be happy...thats what im getting from your post.

if i were you, i would wait to see if it works out between her and her BF. if it doesnt, all you can do is console her. and if she "wants to be more than friends", i say go for it
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Old 02 Mar 2004, 05:42 PM   #3 (permalink)
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well. lets see. i wouldnt say youre selfish. you just got your hopes up that she would like to be with you. you would like to be with her, but you want her to be happy...thats what im getting from your post.

if i were you, i would wait to see if it works out between her and her BF. if it doesnt, all you can do is console her. and if she "wants to be more than friends", i say go for it
I think that you're right, the only problem is that now that they're back together again they're inseperatable... again. (that's why I usually don't talk to her in the halls of my school) but ah... I'm determined to at least try to get myself in a position where if things didn't work out between them I'd be able to step in. I'll just be the best friend that I can be and try to change my looks for the better.
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I'd be the biggest hypocrite on Earth if I said you were being selfish, dude.

If you really like her, I'd say to not give up. Hopefully things'll turn out your way. But if you only kinda like her, and respect her as a friend, I'd be tempted to say leave her as she is if she's happy.
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Old 02 Mar 2004, 05:50 PM   #5 (permalink)
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I'd be the biggest hypocrite on Earth if I said you were being selfish, dude.

If you really like her, I'd say to not give up. Hopefully things'll turn out your way. But if you only kinda like her, and respect her as a friend, I'd be tempted to say leave her as she is if she's happy.
hm, thanks dude. The thing is though, I think I've fallen for her. As much as I hate to admit it, as much as I just try to pretend that everything's cool and that I don't want her as anything more than a friend I'm starting to think that that's exactly what I want from her.
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If you really like this girl than I would say do anything you have to do to get her to be your girlfriend. It could work, if you really try. She must like you if she sended you that note. So I will say do anything you have to do to get her. If it dosen't work out than atleast you know she wasn't for you
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It's a good thing you didn't get with her because, A) You have been the recovery guy, where she just goes out with you to make her feel better until she wants something better (not trying to down you) or B) She would be using you to make that other guy jealous and want her back. Either scenario you're left feeling like shit (more than you do already).


I say just remain friends with her for a while, and if the relationship progresses, then just go with it. Don't try to rush it, and don't act desperate. Just play it cool and things might turn out good for you.
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Old 02 Mar 2004, 11:04 PM   #8 (permalink)
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If you weren't being a pussy, and had told that bitch that YES, you liked her as more than a friend and you wanted to tap that shit, than you might be having your dick down her throat right now as we're typing. But instead, you procrastinated, and now you're stuck with your computer porn.


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Man if she is back together with her boyfriend now. Then you are now officially the friend. Now she knows she has someone to talk to when she and her boyfriend are fighting. And you will be the ear. I'd get out of that phase right now. Shit is lame and you should have went in to hit it the minute she showed interest. The best time to get a chick who is a friend is when she is coming off a relationship. If you don't make the move then they will put you in the forever friend catogory........
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Man if she is back together with her boyfriend now. Then you are now officially the friend. Now she knows she has someone to talk to when she and her boyfriend are fighting. And you will be the ear. I'd get out of that phase right now. Shit is lame and you should have went in to hit it the minute she showed interest. The best time to get a chick who is a friend is when she is coming off a relationship. If you don't make the move then they will put you in the forever friend catogory........

No no no no no........


Being a chick's friend ALWAYS has "benefits".


In case the BF ever cheats...........you're pretty much a dick in a glass case, and oh yes, that glass is very breakable.
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having chick friends is beneficial... very much so. if you know them well enough you can become sex buddies i did that once before.

anyway... yeah as it's been said, stay with her for a while, dont make any moves for a few weeks, and then try some shit out. just go with the flow, when it feels right, do it.
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Being a chick's friend ALWAYS has "benefits".


In case the BF ever cheats...........you're pretty much a dick in a glass case, and oh yes, that glass is very breakable.

Not in this case, where she and her boyfriend have already broken up and gotten back together. Most likly if her boyfriend ever cheated on her, she would run and cry to BM and fuck someone who everone would be talking about the next day......Bottom line you don't want to be the friend after the relationship has been put back together. You'll look like Matt Hardy's push. Good in the beginig and then..............nothing.
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If you weren't being a pussy, and had told that bitch that YES, you liked her as more than a friend and you wanted to tap that shit, than you might be having your dick down her throat right now as we're typing. But instead, you procrastinated, and now you're stuck with your computer porn.


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the thing you're forgetting is that I already knew that she was getting back together with her ex-b/f when she asked me this, she told me herself that breaking up was a mistake. At this point if I had said yes it wouldn't have made a damn bit of difference.
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Man if she is back together with her boyfriend now. Then you are now officially the friend. Now she knows she has someone to talk to when she and her boyfriend are fighting. And you will be the ear. I'd get out of that phase right now. Shit is lame and you should have went in to hit it the minute she showed interest. The best time to get a chick who is a friend is when she is coming off a relationship. If you don't make the move then they will put you in the forever friend catogory........
Thing is I don't think she ever had those feelings for me, I mean I've only known her for like a month. I honestly think she just asked out of curiosity because when she asked me she was still obessing over her exboyfriend.
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Being a chick's friend ALWAYS has "benefits".


In case the BF ever cheats...........you're pretty much a dick in a glass case, and oh yes, that glass is very breakable.
BM you just made the wrong turn and ended up in the friend zone.

She'll have you around and you know why?.... Cause you never know.

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