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Old 01 May 2003, 01:37 PM   #1 (permalink)
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I just wanted to find out how you guys have dealt with it if someone really close to you has died. Is there something you read or someone that you talk to to make you feel better?? Yeah, I'm kind of a mess right now and I need some help.....
 
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well it depends upon the person...the last person who died in my fmaily didn;t take care of himsef so I went and ran, lifted and kickboxed lie there was no tomorrow...course my eyes burned because i was os upset...then i went up ot the mountains and screamed....then i listened to some music (mind you i dealt ewith it this way after helping everyone else cope with it)
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Sorry to hear that man. Anyway, so far I've been lucky(hope to continue this as well) no one really close to me in my family has died. I've lost a few great grand parents that I didn't know too well and I was kinda young when it happened. So it didn't affect me too much. So I'm not much help here, sorry
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My step-dad passed away a couple years ago and he and I were really close. The way I dealt with it, is that it's part of life. People pass away and go on to whatever afterlife they believe in. If whoever passed away was suffering and in a great deal of pain, look at it as though they aren't suffering anymore. Sure you miss them, but THEY aren't in the pain anymore. Death is just a part of life, and everyone has to deal with it some time or another. Just know that you had many great memories with that person and remember all the good they brought to your life. That's about all I can say to you man....
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I dunno sweetie...
Last person really close to me who passed away was my uncle and that was a few years ago...
You just have to move on like they would have wanted you to. Mourn, but don't dwell in that sadness too long...Think of the good times and appreciate the time you did have with them. I don't think there's anything that makes you feel much better except passing time.

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Well,i've been through it 4 times already...
I know that they've prob gone to a better place so knowing that helps me deal with it a bit...
Except when my mom died,that really was and still is tough to deal with..
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My Uncle died christmas day 2 years ago. How did I deal with it initialy? . The problem with that was that when the high went away my depresion was still there. The way that i found that works best is to go into your room or any other place that you won't be bothered and just let all of the initial greef out. Don't hold back, don't tell yourself that you need to get a grip on yourself, just get let it go. Yes , you will feel like shit for the time you are in there, but when you come out you are spent and more able to keep a hold of yourself. Of course that may not work for you, cause it all depends on what type of person you are. I am a loner and like to deal with my pains in my own way so that was the best way for me. My sister on the other hand did pretty much what i did, but she did it out in the open with the rest of the family. However you decide to deal with it just remeber, Whoever it was who died must have been importiant to you and he/she would not want you to spend to much time greeving over their death. They would want you to greeve in the begining and then move on with your life and remember the good times you had with him/her when you get sad about it. The worst thing you can do is get obseesed with it and let it suck all the happieness out of you life. Thats when you unintentionaly screw up some of the other good parts of your life. Sorry for your loss. Take consolence in the fact that eventually the pain will pass.
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My grand mother died like a week ago and i took it hard the first couple dayes but shes gone to a betterplace so that cherred me up some.
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My grand mother died like a week ago and i took it hard the first couple dayes but shes gone to a betterplace so that cherred me up some.
Sorry to hear that about your Grandma...
I'm glad you're doing better though.
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Well man I can relate to what your going thru. My grandfather passed away a month or two ago. And when i was first tild I was like no way. I can beileve it. Then I got sad. But I wasnt really sad about the death, b/c the last few days leading up to it he was real bad, leaning over in his chair, and didnt eat or drink. I felt real bad for him. Then he went, and i was happy hes wasnt suffering anymore. But the main reasonI was sad was because it hit my g/f, and mom, and grandma pretty bad. My dad felt kinda like me i think. I never saw him cry, but he did go upstairs and take a real long shower one night when we were over. But I hope you can get over it soon. And I did have my g/f to talk to. And my parents and grandma. Anf that was a little better. And I was pretty close to him.
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Thanks for trying to help me guys

I was holding his hand when he passed and it was just crazy. Like, I still can't beleive he's gone. Now I just gotta concentrate and hope my Grandma is ok.

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Man, I feel your pain.


My sister was killed in a tragic automobile accident last Wednesday. It sucks big time. I miss her so much, and she was only 27. Right now, the civil trial situation is beginning, so I am trying to be strong for my brother(in-law), and help him all I can, but I feel your pain man, I feel your pain.
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1. If it is a guy who has died, make sure his hot wife/girlfriend has a shoulder to cry on, and a stiff one to ride on. Hey, he won't mind. He'd be proud of you. And if she is fat and ugly, direct her to your wingman, but still treat her with kindness and respect, she could have a hot sister or friend, and you could probably use the good recomendation if you are low enough to want to do your recently departed friend's chick. This is also (as I have found) a good time to hit on his really hot sister that he would never let you hang around.

2. Think of all the money that he or she owes you and then sue their estate.

3. Before the relatives divy up all the good shit, break into his house and loot the place. Remember that PS2 game he would not let you borrow? Well now you own the mother fucker. Go collect your booty. If he smoked weed, etc, you will need to confiscate that stash and bongs, etc before you soil his good name with his family. You are actually doing him a favor.

4. Go pour a 40oz "Old English" on his grave. "This one goes to all my dead hommies"

5. Throw a party in his name. Good way to meet up with all the old friends, and get shit faced drunk, and maybe get some sympathy sex.

6. See if you can steal something cool from the coffin! A ring or necklace is nice, but what kind of watch did he wear?

7. For a good laugh, knock the coffin over at the funeral. This is a laugh riot! The family will be shocked at first, but their sense of humor will eventually let them laugh, if not, fuck them anyway, you don't have to see them anymore hopefully. However, it will make a great story for years to come, and if you doctor it up a little bit, you can use it with your wingman when you go bar hopping and talk to the ladies. (caution though, this story MUST be proceeded by numerous Jack & Coke's)

8. Have sex with the dead body. All the ex's said he was a dead lay, find out for yourself. It is only a misdemeanor in most states! No jail time if you get caught!


I know it is going to be rough. One of my best friends blew his brains out while he was all jacked up on Crystal Meth a few months ago. But I made it just fine. With these helpful tips, you can too!
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